How to live Joyfully

See how to address the larger issues of my life  

There are no large issues in your life  what is the large issue  that you're talking about it is just about what job to take a which girl to marry  whether to get married but not get married you know little things isn't it .

 These are not large issues these are some little things in your life. Yes is it just a small thing whom I get married too I'm not saying it's a small thing but as an issue is the smallest little issue as a consequence to your life yes it has many things, but this is something that human beings have done for millions of years we have enough experience on this things .

We know  that , whatever job we take whoever we marry it is just the way we make out of it every experience of life you can make it an enriching experience every experience in your life you can make a curse out of it.

See there is nothing wrong in your job whatever job you're doing there's nothing wrong getting this job there's nothing wrong  and losing this job there's nothing wrong in getting married there's nothing wrong in getting divorced  there is nothing wrong in not getting married. There is nothing wrong in anything there's nothing wrong in this or that. But it is just that you make misery out of it that's wrong you do this you make misery out of it if you do that to make misery out of it that's what is wrong with you. So you got married is it wrong that's not the point.

There's nothing wrong with it you did not get married  it's wrong no there's nothing wrong with it that's wonderful too you got to divorced it is it's wrong no that's also wonderful it is just that you make misery out of everything that's what is wrong. You just address that one issue everything will be settled that's what we're looking at.

How not to make misery out everything  this one thing is settled everything is settled isn't. Yes if you know how to walk through this world joyfully through managing divorce and everything if you know how to walk to this joyfully what is the problem whatever you do is beautiful isn't it.

If you don't even know how to be happy don't have such goals as a realization they're very far away from you see you are just dismissing something very fundamental to our life with the stupid definition happiness is not just a state of mind it is just the basis of the quality of life that you live here.

If you are capable of going to this world joyfully then you could talk about going beyond you're not even capable of going thru this joyfully talking about beyond is no good there is no way I'm telling, there is simply no way for a person who's constantly creating inner battles along the time how he really dealing with the bonded to surf life and how he needs wins in that.

There's no question It doesn't arise in your life so first thing is working toward to be a blissful human being if that happens the rest becomes very simple because a blissful human being ones your happiness is not at stake anything that's needed you would do . Right now you cannot do what's needed because always what happens is at stake your thinking what which is the right thing to do which is the right thing to do there is no right thing to do in your life. There is no wrong thing to do in your life if you know how not to make misery out of everything that you do whatever you're doing is the right thing if you are making misery out of everything that you're do everything that you do is a wrong thing.

So that's only issue you have to look.